New Hampshire has its 4,000-Foot Challenge: Climb all 48 of the mountains in the White Mountain National Forest that are at least 4,000 feet high. Colorado has the 14ers Challenge: Climb all of the state’s peaks that rise at least 14,000 feet, of which there are…
An Excess of Lemons
— Neil Genzlinger

Neil Genzlinger and his wife, Donna, have two children: Emily, a lawyer, and Abigail, who was born with Rett syndrome in 1997. Neil worked at The New York Times as an editor, a columnist for the Jersey section, a theater and television critic, and an obituary writer; he retired from a nearly 50-year journalism career in 2023. This column, with its proverbial title, will be occasionally inspiring, but also honest about difficulties and setbacks.
The theme of today’s column, in which I will solve one of the most vexing problems facing caregivers of children and adults with Rett syndrome, is “I’ve got your back.” Last week, the International Rett Syndrome Foundation hosted one of its “RettConnect” Zoom calls, this one billed…

There are three things it would never occur to me to do that some people actually do: Catch a rattlesnake and eat it. Play hockey underwater. Board a commercial airliner wearing a Halloween costume. This last one comes to mind because of an article I saw…
My two most recent columns were about the documentary “Silent Angels: The Rett Syndrome Story,” and how it came to be. The film was broadcast on television in 2000, the year our daughter Abby, who has Rett syndrome, turned 3. When I rewatched it to write…
Last in a series. Read part one. In part one of this tale, Barry Ross Rinehart told us how his casual offer to help a stranger with slides for a talk about Rett syndrome led him to direct a full-length documentary, “Silent Angels: The Rett Syndrome…
First in a series. It’s October, which means it’s Rett Syndrome Awareness Month, which means it’s a good time to have an email chat with Barry Ross Rinehart. So I did, and he was gracious enough to tell me about the making of “Silent Angels,” a documentary…
Herewith another installment of the T-Shirt Chronicles, in which I relate episodes from our family’s life with Rett syndrome as represented by garments in our ridiculously outsized collection of T-shirts. Some of those T-shirts are mine. Some belong to my wife, Donna, or my daughter Abby, who has Rett…
National Grandparents Day was this past Sunday, and it was great to see social media photos and videos of grandparents supporting and loving their grandchildren who have Rett syndrome, the condition that my daughter Abby has endured for 29 years. Abby, alas, has to be content with my…
This was our second summer without Camp Communicate. Our daughter Abby, who has Rett syndrome and is nonverbal, never really got the full benefit out of the camp, which sought to encourage nonverbal kids to use their communication devices. But the absence of the camp has left a…
I confess that I am a T-shirt hoarder. I have dozens, many of them embarrassingly old. How bad is my habit? I am in my Social Security years, and I still have a T-shirt from my high school fraternity. And yes, it still fits, kinda. Occasionally I make an effort…
If, like me, you have a child with Rett syndrome and an older, neurotypical child, it’s easy to fall into the “she’ll never” cauldron of gloom. “She’ll never get two MVP awards in high school softball like her older sister.” “She’ll never earn three college degrees like…
The area where I live in central New Jersey seems as if it’s becoming the warehouse capital of the country. For a decade or two, warehouses have been springing up like dandelions, some with recognizable names like Amazon on their signage, others offering no clue to passersby as to who…
Recent Posts
- A solution to the heavy lifting required in Rett syndrome care
- Study identifies physical therapy priorities in Rett syndrome
- On a 15-trail accessible challenge with my daughter with Rett syndrome
- Connecting with others in the Rett community on ‘The Purple Couch’
- Lab findings support Rett gene therapy advancing in late-stage clinical trials
- What would fly for my daughter with Rett syndrome on Halloween
- ‘Rett-like’ label may offer little guidance for patients, study finds
- Taking care of a child with Rett is tiring, but not as much as having it
- Why my husband continues to fight for a cure for Rett syndrome
- ‘Alternative’ genetic cause for Rett found in case of Swedish girl